You are the Total Female Package

“When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all your thoughts break their bonds; your mind transcends limitations, your consciousness expands in every direction, and you find yourself in a new, great and wonderful world.  Dormant forces, faculties and talents become alive, and you discover yourself to be a greater person by far than you ever dreamed yourself to be.”

– Patanjali Yoga

I am here to introduce you to a new, great and wonderful world created just for you and more importantly created by you. I know for certain that my story has come to you in a moment in your life when you need it the most.  I am excited to share your truth in the next few lines to bring awareness to your Universal right as The Total Female Package. Whatever the path this story has taken to make it into your hands and heart, it has come to you through the Law of Love.  You see, I believe in you.  I have faith in all that you are and all that you want to become.  I wholeheartedly love you and am here to share with you my story and why I know with unwavering faith you can live the life of your dreams if and only if, you choose to believe in yourself and take action.  You have all you need inside of you to create and live the life you truly desire.  It’s time now, in this moment, for you to reach for a deeper understanding of who you are at your core and restore the faith in your self-worth and value in this world as The Total Female Package.

My break-up from a five-year relationship with a man I believed I could spend the rest of my life with has become the best wake up call from the Universe.  I remember asking myself questions about what went wrong in my relationship and why was this happening to me again.  The disappointment and heartache I felt kept me numb for several months.  I couldn’t feel anything outside of the grief I felt for losing a best friend – me.  I had yet again wrapped my whole heart around someone else’s world and had not been nurturing my own garden for quite some time.  Every other bucket of my life had seem to be moving along quite well, except for the one bucket that matters the most to so many – the life partner bucket.  I had been in two other long-term relationships prior to this experience and felt like I was in a bad rerun of a twilight zone episode.  I took out my journals and began a deep dive into putting my soul on interview.  I began to notice that although both relationships were ten years apart I was playing the same victim in each experience.  I became frustrated with this realization and started to talk to myself out loud in mirrors.  I began questioning every decision I made and every moment I did not feel authentic in my relationships.  What the heck was the missing link?  How could I possibly play a role in two failed relationships when I’m such a positive and loving person?  What was the big lesson the Universe was trying to teach me?  I was determined to figure it out so I could grow into the person I knew in my heart I envisioned myself becoming in all buckets of my life.

I had watched the movie “The Secret” several times but a voice inside of me told me to watch it again.  As I put the DVD in my player it was like I was watching the movie for the first time. Only this time the message was crystal clear:  I have the authentic power within me to create the vision of the life I crave to experience by the thoughts I choose to focus on with faith and action.  I have the responsibility to focus on thoughts that support my dreams and make me feel good inside by listening to my authentic voice in every moment.  There were so many moments when I didn’t listen to my authentic voice in critical moments of my relationships because I believed I would either hurt the other person’s feelings or push them away by being honest.  I extinguished the ability to share my truth in moments that could have helped my relationship grow.  This awareness was a defining moment for me because it explained on so many levels why living an inauthentic life creates disappointment for all of us.  So I decided to make a choice.  I would live a life from this moment on and live incongruence with my authentic voice.

As I began to truly honor my authentic voice with powerful thoughts about myself everyday, what others may call “magical” and I believe to be “magnetic” opportunities started to take form in my life.  I began to experience genuine joy and noticed how my environment around me started to change for the better once the thoughts I had about my value and self-worth started to improve.  I became more aware of the power of love and began to understand the more love we allow ourselves to feel now regardless of circumstance or where you are on your journey, the greater the power we have inside of us to create a life of love, joy and abundance in every moment.  Each of us is The Total Female Package and I believe sharing this awareness with you is my responsibility in loving you with my whole heart in this lifetime.  I hope to inspire you to realize your dreams and bring awareness to your self-worth and value in this world.

You are the director of your life story and now it’s time for you to call the shots.  What kind of house do you want to live in?  What kind of relationship do you hope to experience?  What kind of car do you want to drive?  How many children do you want to have?  What brings you joy?  What makes you happy? How do you want to be remembered?  What kind of legacy do you want to leave for generations to come?  How do you want to help make a difference in the world?

I encourage you to take frequent gazes into mirrors to remind you of your totality.  I ask that whenever you doubt yourself for a moment you take a second to see your reflection and say and feel “I am The Total Female Package.” Take this new awareness with you everywhere.  Share it with every woman and man in your life you want to partner with in someway.  Everyone around you should know about your totality.  Wear it with pride.  This is your possibility on how to create your total experience of life.    Become your truest reflection for others to see.  You will witness the environment around you begin to change.  You will begin to notice the abundance life offers you in every moment and you will choose to receive all opportunities in a new open way you didn’t think was possible.

Always know I am close to you.  I am your servant TFP sister and am here to love and have faith in you in every moment.   I am no different than you.  If I can believe in my value and self-worth and take the actions to experience my dreams so can you.  I have one request of you, and it is simply this:  Never compare where you are in life to others and think it’s not the best place for you to be.  You are on a journey.  It’s not about the ends as much as it is about the means.  I think a lot of people have that backwards.  Every day is a new beginning.  Get excited about uncertainty because the possibilities of what can happen are infinite.  You are The Total Female Package.Own it, live it and share it!

In true TFP love,

Novalena J. Betancourt